Leaving of Liverpool

Leaving of Liverpool

I recently made a lifelong dream come true. You can roll your eyes if you want, but I went on the National Trust’s Beatles tour in Liverpool, England. The Beatles were my first musical loves. My first crushes. I was lucky enough to have some pretty groovy babysitters who introduced me to Paul, John George and Ringo. My parents listened to Wayne Newton and Englebert Humperdink… what kind of a name is that? Wayne Newton looked like he was ten years old and his voice was as pure as Sandra Dee. No offense to their fans but I was a kid and it just wasn’t happening. So, enter my babysitter who had an obsession with The Beatles.

After they played on The Ed Sullivan Show we all knew who they were. At six years old I was transfixed. My parents caved in and bought me the album “Help” when it came out. I still can’t believe they succumbed to the music of the day. I played the album non stop over and over again on my tiny record player while jumping up and down on my bed with my sister. The grooves on the record were shredded to bits in the end. We were out of control in my bedroom with the white princess furniture.

I finally got to see Paul McCartney play on one of his tours a few years ago and when he broke into “A Hard Days Night” as an opening number I completely lost my mind. I was an “older woman” screaming amongst other older women screaming. It was kind of creepy…. but then Paul was 79 years old…. so there is that.

I decided to go to the UK for this years birthday. I wanted to visit my hilarious partner in crime, Valerie Cligg, who lives in Devon.

She met me in London and we spent a couple of days there and then headed off to Liverpool. My grandmother Edith Frost was born there and I had never been. She died just before I was born. When friends asked me why I was going there I made it sound like I was delving into my family history but it was all about The Beatles.

The National Trust offers a tour of John Lennon’s childhood home and Paul McCartney’s childhood home. Our first night in Liverpool was spent at a nice cocktail lounge for happy hour. I had a couple of delicious Espresso Martini’s. I stayed awake for two days.

Our hotel in Liverpool was lovely. It had short term rental apartments called “Posh Pads”. One night we were heading out for some dinner and drinks and we met Daniella Westbrook from the Eastenders on the front steps, who was also staying in our apartment complex. She notoriously had a wicked addiction to cocaine and stopped after her nose exploded all over her face. After she left the show she did a lot of chat shows talking about her difficult and soul shattering road to recovery and sobriety. She was bubbly and funny as she stood smoking out front with a male friend. She said hello and carried on our way. When we returned two hours later she was still there smoking and she commented on that with a big boisterous laugh. The next morning there was an abandoned false eyelash stuck to the hand rail at the entrance and we suspected it was her calling card. It was definitely the right place for us to be staying in.

I spent some time getting ready for the tour the next morning. I wanted to look just right. Something that implied I was a Beatles fan but not too over the top. I wasn’t going to deck myself out in an emblazoned tee shirt…. something more…. tasteful and understated.

I just couldn’t believe I was going to see Paul’s childhood home. I was going to be standing in his bedroom. I don’t know how to describe the anticipation and the excitement. We met at the train station where a minivan picked us up. There were several other fans on board. It was full. There were about 14 of us. Our tour companions were from all over the world… Americans, Dutch, French and myself… the sole Canadian. We sped through the Liverpool neighborhoods while our driver blasted the Beatles. Our first stop was John Lennon’s childhood home, which belonged to his Aunt Mimi and Uncle George. The house was quite lovely. It hadn’t been renovated at all. Whoever had bought the house had left things as they were. A small place with a stained glass front entrance. Black and white tile in the kitchen. There were three rooms downstairs. There was a sitting room at the front of the house and another good-sized room at the back of the house, which was used as a dining room. Upstairs there were two bedrooms, a bathroom, and a room where John played drums and eventually guitar. The larger of the bedrooms was Mimi’s and George’s, and the smaller one was John’s. These were wartime houses. They were small but sturdy. It had a large backyard where Uncle George had built John a treehouse. By all accounts, it sounded like John had a very stable and loving home with his Aunt and Uncle. We weren’t allowed to take any photos inside the house, and I respected that. The temptation to sneak one off was great, but I somehow controlled myself.

JOHN LENNON’S CHILDHOOD HOME

I was surprised to find out that Yoko Ono bought John’s childhood home when it came up for sale and donated it to the National Trust to use as a museum in honour of John. She knew how much that house meant to him and how much he loved it. She wanted his fans to be able to see where he came from. The furniture in the house is original for the most part. The pieces they couldn’t locate were replaced by the same period pieces. it was hair raising standing in the house and being surrounded by John. Family pictures on the walls and some of the young Beatles. You could tell that Mimi ran a tight ship. The house was decorated nicely and well kept. There was some structural work being done on the outside when we were there but the inside has remained intact.

After a very informative tour, we boarded our mini bus again and squealed off to Paul’s childhood home. When we pulled up in front of the small working class house I was surprised to see the difference between John’s fancier stained glass front entrance and Paul’s plain brick with a red door.  

It was much smaller inside. The house felt welcoming and well lived in. The front room was filled with the original furniture and a small piano. Paul’s mum had sewn together carpet runners to make one carpet. I thought that was so smart and obviously cheaper than buying a full size carpet.   I sat in the comfy chair in the living room , where Paul sat often ,strumming his guitar.  We heard stories of John and Paul writing songs here and there was a picture of them on the wall that was taken in the front room.

           

Finally I was standing in Paul’s bedroom. It was so small. A single bed ,a front window, and a dresser.  The walls were beige, devoid of any colour.  It was pretty drab.  A typical, functional bedroom for the times.  This tiny room housed such a giant talent that wrote so many classic and timeless songs.   I wanted to jump on that single bed and roll around but I would have been arrested. We ended our tour outside in the postage stamp size backyard. There was a striped chair where Paul had been photographed over 60 years ago strumming his guitar. We all took turns sitting in the chair, hoping to feel some electricity. I may or may not have farted due to all the excitement.

Paul’s backyard

Finally our time at Paul’s house was over and I wished I could transport myself back in time but alas I squeezed back into the mini van with other older couples chatting about what a thrilling tour it was. I highly recommend it. I thought it was going to be painfully cheesy but it was like going to an interactive art gallery or museum. A personal space trapped forever in time and for Beatle lovers it’s a must.

We had to, of course make a trip to The Cavern Club. That night we had a quick change of clothes and headed off to see where the first shows took place. The area was crowded with people and shops. The narrow streets were lined with pubs and bars and shops. We made our way until we saw the familiar sign that I’d seen a million times before in articles and Beatle documentaries.

I found out that this club is not the original location but the interior is exactly the same. It does feel like you are in an old underground rail station. The stage is a small space that is halo’d by brick work. The music playing was Bob Dylan and then the Beatles, of course, you so could catch the vibe.

We had a pint and soaked in the atmosphere. It was cool to see the space, but I will say it is touristy. If I was going out at night, I don’t think I’d go there unless there was a band playing that I wanted to see. I’m not sure what talent they would have on the weekends. When we were there, they had a soloist who played guitar and sang….. you guessed it… Beatles songs. Not really my favorite thing. I prefer to hear the originals, but it is a tourist location. I bought some trinkets from the shop, like a Cavern Club pin and a tee-shirt. My friend’s mom used to actually work in the real Cavern Club back in the day and saw The Beatles many times before they made it big. I can’t imagine what that must have been like. To see them when they were figuring out who they all were. It’s funny because they ended up with this squeaky clean image compared to The Rolling Stones, but in actuality George, Paul, John, and Ringo came from some tough streets in Liverpool and were not the image that was portrayed. They were real rounders and probably struggled to maintain that image.

Next stop we went to find the Fab Four statues. We knew they existed and we were told they were down near the pier by the waterfront. So off we went asking people as we made our way through the fancy shopping areas. Eventually we saw the grouping in the distance. As we got closer, we couldn’t believe how tall they were. They definitely were much larger than life-size. They were massive and god-like and super cool.

After our Beatles extravaganza we went to the Red Brick Market. You could easily spend a couple of hours checking out all the stalls. There were over 100 traders with their unique stalls of goods. Being on a tight budget, with the exchange rate making me puke every time I calculated it, I only bought a pair of earrings.

RED BRICK VINTAGE

Next stop was St Luke’s Church, known locally as “the bombed out church”. It suffered catastrophic damage during the May Blitz of 1941. The entire inside of the church was blown out with raging fire, but miraculously the outer structure survived. The inside was derilect and overgrown with foliage making it inaccessible for 60 years. Rather than removing the structure it was decided to leave it as a memorial to the war. Eventually the interior was cleaned up and opened to the public in 2007. Since then it has been a space used for music and art and a range of cultural events. The stillness and quiet of the interior feels very spiritual regardless of your faith, or if you practice any sort of religion. It opens up to the heavens and all of nature.

ST. LUKE’S CHURCH

Upon leaving the church we spotted The Blue Angel and Val felt obliged to honour its existance.

I had a whirlwind time in Liverpool and certainly would love to go back. It’s a vibrant city on the water and its history is varied from the lasting effects of the Blitz during WW11 to its greatest gift to music; The Beatles. The city has so many shopping areas that are wide open with bustling tourists and locals sitting in cafes and restaurants. In addition there are the older areas where the streets are narrow and filled with pubs and clubs and cobblestone walkways. Everywhere you look there is some beautiful historic building.

I honestly wish I’d had more time but I know I will return. I loved it. Next visit I will do some research on the Frost family and my gran, Edith Fost… I promise. Ya ya ya

Next stop is Vietnam

Next stop is Vietnam

I always wanted to go to Vietnam.  Not to fight… obviously… but to travel.  All I saw were movies like “Apocalypse Now”, “The Deer Hunter”, “Platoon” and “Full Metal Jacket” and I knew, since there was finally no war happening, Vietnam had changed and hopefully mended.  I was also curious what the Americans had left behind; in terms of culture.

My partner, Travis and I traveled with backpacks because I couldn’t fathom lugging suitcases around during our adventures across potential unexploded bombs in rice paddy’s.  

  I went to an Asian tour company in China Town in Toronto and they were amazing, not only because they found us a great fare, but they told us important information like, “do not bring damaged American dollars because they only want new and clean looking money.”   Our flight departed out of Toronto to England where we had a three hour wait and then we boarded a Korean Airline to Thailand.  Korean Air was a wonderful airline where the service was impeccable and the food was great.  We landed in Bangkok and had a four hour wait for our flight into Vietnam.  We could have hitched a ride there faster.  The entire travel took about 19 hours with the time on the ground between flights. The journey was ridiculously long.

I opted for a Thai foot massage at the airport while Travis cringed because he can’t imagine anyone touching someone else’s feet.  He’s never had a pedicure.  It felt good and it passed the time.  When we finally landed in Vietnam it was around 6pm.. the next day for us.  We got a taxi in Saigon and headed to the only pre-booked hotel on our entire vacation; somewhere near the airport.   We had to sleep and we somehow managed to rest our minds and slept through the rest of the day and night in a simple but clean room with a shower.   The next morning, we checked out and headed to Pham Ngu Lao in District One because we knew that was an area where backpackers could find cheap hotels.  We managed to find one after talking to some people in  a café on the corner of the street.  We also had our “bible” at the time; The Lonely Planet, with tips to traveling in Vietnam.  This area is where we met our Cyclo drivers that were to become our friends and travel guides for the entire time we were in Vietnam.  Hue and Nyg were the sweetest couple of guys you could ever meet.  They only wanted us to be happy; all the time.  They peddled us around Saigon showing us all the sites like the Reunification Palace, where the tank crashed through the gates in 1975, ending the Vietnam war. The tank still sat there as a symbol. 

Hue and Nyg

We went to the War Remnants Museum which used to be referred to as the American War Crimes Museum.  It is a yard filled with American Huey choppers that were shot down and Platoon tanks that were captured.  There are unexploded ordnance to see.  There are also some really disturbing photos of the My Lai  Massacre and the effects of Agent Orange and other atrocities.  There are replicas of the “tiger cages” the North Vietnamese used to house prisoners as well as a guillotine that was used by the French and South Vietnamese to execute prisoners up until 1960. 

We saw where the American Embassy used to be, where the helicopter evacuation took place during the fall of Saigon.  It closed in 1975 and was demolished two years prior to our trip there.

The Vietnam-Soviet Petroleum company occupied the building for years and on the rooftop there were still rusting c-ration cans and sandbags left ,from the evacuation, when the building was demolished in 1998..

The last helicopter getting out of Saigon

The architecture in Vietnam is French and Asian combined.  Some of the markets are in the most beautiful buildings but ,once inside, it is vast and cramped, with stalls of people cooking over steaming woks and buckets of boiling broth.

We saw women sitting up in little cubicles with sewing machines making clothes all day in the crowded space.

Our hotel was a small room with a small bed but we had our own bathroom and it cost us around $10 US a night.  We were within walking distance of all the restaurants and shops.  There were open air stalls with incredible artists who were reproducing famous paintings on canvas.  There were perfectly copied Warhol’s and huge art deco paintings.  My one regret was not buying one. I couldn’t figure out how to transport it around the country and into Cambodia without it eventually being destroyed.

The traffic in Vietnam is horrendous and the crazy thing is that there are no traffic lights or signs or anything.  Everyone moves like fast flowing lava traveling down a roadway; always in sync and always moving; a mechanical winding snake.  There are numbers of people on overloaded motorbikes sitting in every position imaginable and then there are Cyclos, which are bicycles with seats on the front, for tourists to ride around the city.  There are cars and trucks that are overloaded.  There are so many people.  Crossing a road takes some courage and know- how.   You just need to start walking and have faith that everyone will go around you.  The thing is; to not stop once you have decided to make your move because they are anticipating you moving along as they weave in and out and around you.  They are very aware, defensive drivers, but they also will stop their car or bike  anywhere… walk away ; leaving it in what you would perceive as a traffic lane.  It’s the craziest system.

It is very polluted in Saigon because of all the vehicles and unfortunately people are not really conscious of littering.  It was hot and smelly in the streets.  You would see someone dragging a block of ice down the sidewalk to hack up later and put in beer or soda.  As in all countries where the water is not purified you need to be careful about ice and always drink bottled water.  I never drank a cocktail and stuck to beer without ice in it my entire time in Vietnam. 

When we went, in 2000, it was just starting to become a place for tourists to go.  There were Vets who were returning to find some peace of mind in seeing that the country had survived and the people of Saigon, now Ho Chi Min City, had moved on and were trying to build a new life.  Everywhere we went the Vietnamese knew and requested, the song “Hotel California” by The Eagles.  I’m not sure how or why… but they knew that song.  It is most likely from Kareoke which is a big past time and you will find rooms in the most run down looking buildings that are fancy and air conditioned for your singing comfort.  The Vietnamese  also love to use the “thumbs up” while saying “A-OK” which must be a leftover expression from the Americans. 

The Vietnamese are enthusiastic and happy to meet people from a different culture and really care about your happiness while you are there visiting.  They desperately wanted to show us how things have survived but also wanted us to know that there was a lot of hardship.  Both of our  guides had grown up during the war and when they were old enough around 1978 they had to go and fight in Cambodia against Pol Pot and the Khmer Rouge.  One of our drivers had shrapnel in his back and he looked so much older than his years and they had friends and relatives die in both the Vietnam War and the war against genocide in Cambodia.

Almost everyone in Vietnam has suffered because of the long years of war.  You can see it in their eyes behind the smiles and in the quiet moments where no one speaks.  The children are also suffering because of the poverty.  They only go to school for three or four years ,if they are lucky, and then they are working on the streets selling lighters, cigarettes, books, and anything considered touristy that they can carry.

We met kids who were only 7 years old and spoke four languages.  They hadn’t been to school but working on the streets they had learned to speak English, French, German and Russian. 

We bought the kids dinners and cokes and they would eat half of what was on their plates and then sneak off with the rest to hand it over to a parent who was watching from a distance.  It broke my heart.  The children in Vietnam are very special because there is a hope and a joy that they express openly with strangers like ourselves.  Travis bought a mandolin and would play songs for the kids.  They knew a little bit of Jingle Bells but they did knew all of Frere Jacques the French lullaby.  “Frere Jacques Frere Jacques dorme vu dorme vu”.  We sang that with them and they were so excited we could all sing a song together. 

One day we asked Hue and Nyg to take us to the Mekon Delta.  They rented motorcycles and we were off on the horrible bombed out roads to the river.  It took a couple of hours and we blew a tire on the way and had to stop to have it replaced.   Inside the mechanics shack was a women charging for haircuts so Travis decided to get a trim.  She pulled out a straight razor and started dry shaving him around his neck and chin.  I saw the terror in his eyes… one slip of that blade.  She went to move onto the back of his neck and he squeaked out, “No!  It’s OK… no.”  She understood and stopped.  She moved onto his hair and when she finished he looked like a Vietnamese Ken doll.   His molded and folded hair was then sand blasted with hair spray and as we sped away on our motorcycles I looked over and Travis’ hair was not moving an inch in the dusty dry 50 mile an hour wind. 

When we arrived on the Mekon we met a guy with a boat and we chugged down the river with our friends.  It was eerie and strange after watching so many movies about the war.  All I could think about was Apocalypse Now.  I can’t imagine how terrifying it must have been for the Americans and South Vietnamese.  The river has a winding beauty with its thick jungle banks but you cannot see what is around the bend.  You could be lulled into the peaceful tranquility and all of a sudden face an ambush.  Thank god the war finally ended and now it is just another river with dark brown water. We stopped for lunch somewhere along the way and ate gigantic steamed shrimp.

By the time we returned to Saigon we were exhausted and filthy from the dust and dirt of the roads.  I think we were always dirty in Vietnam.  There is a dirt film in the air.

One of our most bizarre day trips was to the Cu Chi Tunnels in the Cu Chi district near Saigon.

There are interconnecting underground tunnels that were used by the Viet Kong to hide from detection during the war.  Some of them were right underneath American bases.  The Viet Cong would come out at night into the jungles and lay traps and place charges and mines. There was an American tank left rusting in the jungle. It had been ambushed and it still sits there as a haunting reminder of the turmoil this country and America had to endure before the end of the war in 1975.

Left rusting in the forest where it crossed a mine
U.S. helicopter that was captured

I’m claustrophobic but I thought I would be remorseful if I’d traveled all this way and not experienced this.  We saw an original entrance to a tunnel that was a patch of grass lifted from the earth exposing a narrow hole down.  You had to raise your arms above your head to get through. 

A tiny entrance

They have an entrance for tourists that is much larger and has earth steps down but once inside you have to crawl along.  They have added electric lights so at least you can see.  Once inside my heart started pounding and the panic set in.  I just kept talking to myself and quietly saying that I would be out shortly.  I went 10 meters and then took the first exit out.  I did see one of the small rooms that the tunnel opened up into before I scrambled out.  It was so small.  I can’t believe that there were babies born in these tunnels who never saw the light of day.  They were like mole people. 

The tunnels were widened for tourists but so tiny
One of the small rooms

Outside the tunnels in the jungle were traps everywhere.  Covered pits that housed bamboo spikes so if you were a soldier walking along you could all of a sudden drop through the earth and become impaled.  Really gruesome stuff.  So many ingenious ways to killing a man.

If you fell through this you would be pierced and unable to get out

This was a pit of spikes, hidden, and covered by a soft porous wood that would not withstand the weight of a man. It would be covered over with some dirt and leaves and not seen by the human eye.

Prior to entering the site we were shown propaganda movies and footage of the Viet Cong fighting the war and living in the tunnels. The whole thing was really surreal.

When we left the site we noticed a beautiful Temple and stopped there to have a look. it was called the Bến Dược Memorial Temple. We didn’t expect to find something so beautiful near something so horrible.

ON December 19, 1975 the first stages of the Memorial monument was inaugurated by the Communist Party to memorialize the soldiers and people who died in the war. Visitors are welcome to come inside and burn incense and meditate.

We went inside many temples and we couldn’t believe the ornate structures with multiple poles of winding snakes and serpents. Some were so beautiful and had traditional Vietnamese music playing.

As we left Vietnam to make our way into Cambodia we experienced a sadness to leave our friends behind. We traveled in a small cramped bus with other tourists to the border. It took several hours on roads with huge craters left from the bombings. There were no washrooms on the way. Our driver stopped at one point to grab a fish that had jumped out of a gutter at the side of the road. He picked it up and put it in the front of the bus. Something he would take home for supper I imagined.

When we finally arrived at the border it was a scary site. I really felt like I was in a movie.

Crossing into Cambodia

Like a lot of places, there is corruption, and we were told if you put a five dollar bill in your passport you could get through the border faster. I was too afraid to do that. I just stood in line and ,when we got up front, the guards took my fashion magazine and immediately started looking for a centerfold. That was pretty funny. We finally crossed into Cambodia and… well… that’s for another post.

Someday I hope to go back and find my friends who made us feel welcome and safe and happy. I will always remember them in my heart if I don’t make it back there.

I will never like the song “Hotel California” though.